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My Life Story By Sue Blevins Kovack
I was born in Rocks Springs, Wyoming on March 12,1944 as my father, Jim
Blevins was a coal miner and he took us there so he could work as they were on
strike here in West Virginia, Carbondale area. My mother, Ruby Blevins was a
school teacher and she could get a job anywhere, my dad made great money but my
mother wanted to teach and teach, she did for over forty some odd years. She
loved her job as a teacher and the kids loved her more! There were more kids at
her funeral than adults!
I grew up and was told that I was suppose to be a
Nash. Theodore Burleson told us that Wick Nash was the father of Melvina three
sons, John, Wick and William Lawrence or Bill as we called him. I actually
look a lot alike my Great Uncle Bill Blevins in the facial area. Theodore was
one of the Grandsons to Minnie Blevins that lived with my Great Uncle John
Blevins until she died. They were married but we c have not located a marriage
license for them anywhere, John was a brother to my biological Grandpa Wick
Henry Blevins and I grew up knowing John Blevins quite well. John was married
three times, Betty Ramey, Minnie Slaughter Blevins and Nancy Treadway. We have
a military record that states that John Blevins cannot father any children.
John Blevins fought on San Juan hill with Teddy Roosevelt.
Wick Henry was my grandfather and when my
Grandma Evalena died, Wick farmed out all his kids by Evalena James Blevins. He married Ethel Nora Early nine months later and had
another set of kids! I was never allowed to visit him or call him
Grandpa as my Dad was so angry at his father for giving up all his
kids and he appointed himself "The Father Figure" for his brothers
and sisters.
My father, Jim Blevins looked after all of them and managed to get married and have children of
his own too! They were Lenora Ann Blevins, Patricia Sue Blevins, Jimmy Darryl
Blevins and Jenny Lou Blevins. My mother was a Blevins and married a Blevins
in Bristol, Virginia. My dad carried my mom across the street in Bristol, Va.
and then, he told her, now woman, you are in Tennessee! I have some of my
father's letters that he wrote to my mother and he was quite a romantic
person!
Kemper Blevins and Justin Howard Blevins was raised in a boarding home and
mistreated until my father was old enough to go get them out of there and helped
them get a job and took Justin Howard to Kentucky with him and put him to work
in a coal mines as most did during that time period and the pay was great and
the medical was free too! The boarding home was owned by a sister to Ethel
Nora Early. Kemper and Justin Howard wore those golfing hats as they worked on
a golf course when they were in that boarding room. Kemper married
Katherine Ashby.
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My father was the most protective father anyone could have due to the way
he was treated by his father, Wick Blevins. My dad, Jim Blevins would put up a
six foot fence and kept us in that backyard so we could be safe! We had two
Collie dogs until someone fed them some kind of poison. No one and I mean no
one could talk about HIS KIDS! He was on you like flies on honey!
That included my mother too!
We went on family picnics and ate watermelon that my
dad had put in a cold running creek and secured with rocks. I so remember
eating those cold cold watermelons. We would make ice cream on the Fourth of
July too! I remember seeing my Dad watch us even when he was talking
to another person, he knew where his kids were and what we were
doing too!
My father would not let my mother spank us either and he even trained our family
dog, a bulldog to attack my mother when she would try to spank US! My father,
Jim Blevins was six feet and four inches tall and weighed 225 pounds so few men
would mess with him. I have seen him take three men at one time and
throw them out of our restaurant in The wildcat area of southern
Virginia.
It seemed as if everywhere we moved that Kemper Blevins would go there too.
So I grew up with Mike, Patsy, Jim, Joe, Jerry, Danny and Barbara Kay Blevins and we were real
close and have always been that way to this date today of June 24,2005. It is
funny as Mike was the oldest and he was named Charles Edward Blevins and Uncle
Kemp wanted him to be named Mike so he said from this day forward, he shall
be known as Mike and all of us called him that. We went on most
holiday picnics together and we were together on the other holidays
as well.
My Uncle Justin was called Tots and Uncle Preacher to me?????Do not know
the reason for that either! Its no wonder we are having extreme difficulties
locating our family records now. the Blevins's did not leave a paper
trail so they are very hard to document.
Justin Howard once was in a bar drinking beer and talking to some of his
buddies and my father went to visit them and his wife said that he was not home
and told him where he could find Justin and that she was unhappy that he spent
his free time there and not at home. My dad, Jim Blevins went to
that bar and took that beer and told his brother that you are a
married man and you are suppose to be home with your wife and made
him leave that bar and to this day, we do not know what Jim Blevins
told his brother Justin Howard Blevins but he never went to any bars
after that!
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My dad drank all the time and whiskey too! We once drove over The Golden Gate Bridge and my parents were having an
argument about his drinking and he took that whiskey bottle out and threw it
over the bridge into the water and he never drank after that. I have been in
numerous states and lived in most of them as my father, Jim Blevins was Jack of
all Trades! He was w worker and a great one too. he ran a motor car in the
mines and when he came down the tracks, the men would scatter as they knew he
was not stopping for any of them and often, the lunch buckets would go flying
off the tracks as Jim Blevins was paid by the loads he did in a day and he was
the fastest and made the most money! The men would yell down the tracks that
Jim Blevins or Big Jim was coming! My father never took lunch and
ate on that motor car everyday.
My father had nicknames for all of us, Big Ann, Little Sue,
Pedro and My Cowgirl was Jenny. My father loved to hunt and fish too! We were
in Colorado for that reason so he could hunt and fish! My mother was
a great woman and put herself through college without any help from
her parents as they did not think that a woman should get a college
education.
My mother spent her
weekends with Sarah Mullins Blevins and she would talk about the family and if my
mother started to close her eyes, she would be pinched anywhere that hand would
land and my Great Grandma Sarah Mullins Blevins would tell her, I am not done
with you yet! That is how my mother knew so much about her family. Mother
finished college and had her degree and went to teach her first class in Hellier, Kentucky and there is where she met my father, Jim Blevins. Jim
Blevins was friends with Clifford Eugene Blevins and he was dating Irene
Blevins, my mother's sister in Kentucky and she was fifteen at that time and
Irene married Clifford Blevins and had her first son, Dean Blevins
at age sixteen.
I went to High School in West Virginia and also Virginia, Yorktown High
School in Arlington, Virginia , and then to Maryland to North Caroline High
School where I graduated. I left the next day and got on a bus and came to my
sister apartment in Arlington as she had a job and was working at General
Electric. I had a babysitting job for the summer and I went to work for the
Hecht Company on Glebe Road and took a bus to work or walked if it was daytime. I went to work for Sears in the customer service department then.
I rented a room and finally got an apartment with a friend and she
was never at the apartment but paid her half of the rent. so I was
happy.
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I met Dennis William Kovack at this time and we were getting serious. He was a automobile mechanic
next door to the Hecht Company. I walked down to his shop one day and drove
myself to the Glebe Road DMV and took my drivers license test and drove his suped
up Mercury back to his shop and walked to my room as I had the day
off and I was determined to get my license.
Dennis came and picked me up after work and we
would eat together and spend the evening together too. We were married on
January 23,1966 and my oldest son, Skylar David Kovack was born on July
10,1967. He was a big baby at eight pounds and eight and one half ounces and
actually gained an ounce before we left the Columbia Hospital For women in
Washington, D.C. as that is where my doctors wanted me to go to have this baby.
as we lived in Arlington, Va. So, I took a nine pound newborn son home.
My son Sky had asthma and bad tonsils and he was too young to have them taken out and I
had started working for Safeway Grocery Stores in 1964 when my brother Jimmy
Darryl was hit by a train and killed in Manassas, Va. Jimmy worked for Safeway
and I went to work in the same store as he was employed. My husband and I
decided that we needed to go to a drier climate for our son Sky so we sold some
things and packed up and went to Phoenix, Arizona and I went to work for Safeway
Stores there also and my son Christopher James Kovack was born on
March 18, 1971.
The hospital was across the street from our apartment building and I
walked to my doctor's office and to Christown Hospital where he was born.
Chris had hair down his neck and it was very black and his skin was so much
darker that my other son, Sky. Chris looked like an Indian baby! He was the
sweetest baby. I was awaken at the crack of dawn as the sun comes up early in
Arizona like 4:00 A. M. My son, Chris would get up when the sun did so I took
aluminum foil and covered his entire window and he slept until at least eight
in the mornings! My mother was laughing at me but, hey, it worked for me!
My Sky was three and very very active and a handful during the
daytime and I needed my sleep to handle him and a newborn too!
My husband wanted out of Phoenix as
it was unbearable to work in that heat! We moved to Douglas, Arizona and he
went to work in the Copper smelter there. My mother and my sister, Debbie Toney
lived there also and so did my sister, Jenny and her first husband, Bob George.
Jenny and Robert George built their home from the ground up and they
did all the work themselves and went to Tucson and bought the
supplies that they needed.
I moved to Arizona in May of 1969 and we came back to Pennsylvania in May of
1978. My husband was from this area, Somerset, Pa. He could not get
a good paying job and we left in 1979 to come to Virginia and I have
been here since that time period and I had over forty years with
Safeway Grocery Stores too and I just retired from Safeway in 2004.
My husband developed a neurological
disease called Dystonia and he became a man that I did not know and we were both
unhappy so we divorced in 1990 and he lives in Somerset, Pa, now.
I have six Grand children now from ages 17 to seven. Megan Marie Kovack, Rebecca Ann Kovack, Sky David Jr., Joseph David Kovack, and a set of
twins, Amanda Marie Kovack and Kristin Lynn Kovack. I now have a part time job as I do not like retirement as of
now!
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I am proud of my daughter too! I love her to pieces too! Its hard sometimes to give her her needed
space as I want to see her all the time but I try to respect her wishes and give her some freedom
too. But I wish!
Happy Happy Birthday Baby!
Mom's Baby!
Love you,
Mom
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